2020年4月15日 | by 科姆龙
I have never expected people all over the world to like me. All my efforts from childhood to adulthood are just to make myself like myself more and give full play to my strengths. However, life is really bitter. Some people try their best to live as others envy, but they lose their true self. Some people spend their whole life trying hard. Although they still live a plain life, they live their own unique elegant demeanour.
As for me, I am just an ordinary woman in all living creatures. I have neither extraordinary talent nor extraordinary talent. Among my relatives and friends, I have always acted as a “fool”, but I have never collapsed because of this. On the contrary, because I understand my own defects, I have learned self-discipline, spend more time than others to achieve a better self. In loneliness, I learned to become a bosom friend with myself, and I also learned to be clear-minded and not to be moved by external things.
During these days when I was “forbidden” at home, I insisted on getting up early, reading, writing, learning and doing sports every day. No matter in sunny days or rainy seasons, I didn’t spend more than half of my time arbitrarily. In the schedule, every minute, every second, what to do and what not to do, everything is clear to heart. I love the self-discipline that is clean and self-disciplined more than squandering endlessly.
Self-discipline is a kind of self-discipline. It is the most right thing to do everything properly and at the right time. But what on earth is the right time? Where is the real opportunity? As long as you are willing to squeeze time, read more books and do more physical and mental exercises, the time that you make full use of will thus become full. The so-called lack of time to do what you like is just a reason and excuse for your laziness.
Among Japanese writers, the only thing I love most is Haruki Murakami, who loves his talents, but loves other self-discipline and self-cultivation. Haruki Murakami’s self-discipline ability can be called a model among literary writers. He insisted on getting up at four o’clock every day, writing for 5 hours, running for 1 hour or swimming for 1.5 hours in the afternoon, and going to bed at nine o’clock on time at night. These daily routine habits of Haruki Murakami have never changed for more than 30 years.
However, a real man with self-cultivation and achievements must know how to arrange his own schedule reasonably and make analysis and thinking rationally and calmly in dealing with others. Enjoy a person’s happiness when you are alone. In the noisy crowd, you can also keep your true self, not go with the flow, not make mistakes, but do what you can and do what you can.
“If you don’t do anything inaction, how can you send You Ya life?” Who said that poetry and distant places can not have both, in my opinion, in real life, you can work hard for life, while you can spare a moment of leisure time, reading and drinking tea, writing to heart, burnish World, but can in heart deep Xiu Li of chrysanthemum, have to party clean the floor, so and not a kind of happy, then why not?
In this materialistic world, everyone has the shackles to imprison his freedom. It is just like playing when you are young, being obsessed with love when you are young, being famous and getting married when you are young, and still having unsolvable confusion and anxiety until your twilight years.
Although the life span of a person has been arranged for a long time, how to blossom and bear fruits in a short life depends on his own ability. I still think that after all the hustle and bustle, what is ushered in is silence after all; After all the bustling, what is faced is only plain.
Putting aside those unnecessary dinners, useless social contacts and even harmful and unprofitable things, alone, pouring tea Du Shu and doing some physical and mental activities without deliberately catering to others’ preferences, there is no need to hide your true face and enjoy the happiness when you are alone.
The real self-discipline is to do what you say and do what you say. It is even more self-cleaning, knowing to keep a pure land of one’s heart in this turbulent world. Also one of the highest cultivation.
If you want to achieve a better self, you must endure loneliness and have prosperity. Know how to do what you want without exceeding the rules, enrich your mind more time, and pursue less fame and wealth; Only by improving your realm and sinking your material desires can you live more freely and freely, more comfortable.